Thursday, November 6, 2008

Happiness Is...

I am learning to find joy in the little things ~ anything to shed light on this narrow dark path. Reconnecting with friends on Facebook has brought me more joy that you can possibly imagine. So ~ what do you say to a friend when you are reconnecting after 20+ years? How do you sum up all those years since high school, since camp, since college?

It's a fine line ~ the boundaries between the safe answers and the raw, ugly truth are fuzzy. I am a straight shooter, maybe it's the Texas blood that pulsates through my veins. It's incredibly hard for me to BS my way through a conversation without mentioning the only thing on my mind, "Hey ~ did I tell you that I am having brain surgery in a couple of weeks?" There is no smooth transition. I find myself not sharing with some, because I know that they won't know what to say in return ~ what do you say? But seriously, it's still me ~ just because my brain is sliding out of my head doesn't define me completely. Although, it has put a damper on my bubbly personality.

Therein is the beauty of friendship ~ those who really know me offer prayers, support, a shoulder to lean on. Friends share life's joys, disappointments, sorrows ~ that's the glue that binds you. Life is messy ~ TRUE STORY ~ no matter what you are going through, no matter how dark and scary, know that if we are friends I will be there for you, no matter what might come strolling down your path. Don't be afraid to share your life, let someone join you in your journey. It makes life more bearable to have a friend walking by your side.

4 comments:

Debbie Loomis-Earles said...

I realy enjoy your blog and I'm going to try to see you in the hospital in December. Talking about reconnecting with old friends my foriegn exchange sister from Brazil contacted me two weeks ago and we have not talked in twenty five years. So many emotions but all good. We know are always talking and will never let time go by with out staying in touch. It's so true how good it is to reconnect because we just never know what curve ball life can through us so we should enjoy it and always be thankful. I'll be thinking of you as you get ready for your surgery. Your in the best of hands!!

Chiari friends,
Debbie

RiverPoet said...

True. Some people just don't want to hear anything unpleasant, and you don't always know instinctively who those people are. I'm a big fan of "just enough" information. As someone whose brain is also "sliding out of my head", I know that not everyone gets it.

Peace - D

Anonymous said...

Hi Lacie:

I just wanted to let you know that you are in my prayers today. Let me know what your plans are for next weekend. I am hoping that we can see you then.

-Katie

Amanda said...

Let me know what you need - always praying but willing to do anything else!! Love ya!